Two sides of a coin

There's a saying

There is always two sides of a coin

Everyone of us has a story. We create and tell our story everyday. One side of the story, we may tell people what they really want to hear, it will go through filtering, adding, subtracting so that it will become juicier and will serve our purpose. Maybe manipulating, getting attention, blaming or become a victim story etc.
The other side of the coin... Is where "What's the story morning glory is?" The real story, what actually happened, what did you do or did not do that created the result? What did you say or did not say that created the result? This side of the story is not easy to tell... As it requires us to take ownership and responsibility of what happened. We are part of the contributor to our story. Always... That means, this side of the story  that requires us to be responsible, leaves little room for finger pointing or blaming. We have to rise and becoming a bigger person to be able to see from this point.
So which side of the story that you tell? Which one would we prefer to listen? Which one would serve humanity? Which one would breed separation? Which one people love to hear? Which one you love to listen?

Which side of a coin that we use, to see our life everyday?